revise /customnode/installed api (#1398)

* revise /customnode/installed

improved: don't fetch data from cnr for the api
improved: change format {<cnr id>: <version>} -> {<module>: [<version>, <cnr id>]}

* fix condition

* improved: add `mode=imported` for startup snapshot

`/customnode/installed` - current snapshot
`/customnode/installed?mode=imported` - startup snapshot

* improved: move cache dir to user directory

* modified: /customnodes/installed
- show whole nodes including disabled
- format changed `key -> list` to `key -> dict`

* fixed: doesn't show disabled node pack properly.

* Update workflow-metadata.js

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Co-authored-by: huchenlei <huchenlei@proton.me>

pyproject.toml

@@ -1,7 +1,7 @@
 [project]
 name = "comfyui-manager"
 description = "ComfyUI-Manager provides features to install and manage custom nodes for ComfyUI, as well as various functionalities to assist with ComfyUI."
-version = "3.3.13"
+version = "3.4"
 license = { file = "LICENSE.txt" }
 dependencies = ["GitPython", "PyGithub", "matrix-client==0.4.0", "transformers", "huggingface-hub>0.20", "typer", "rich", "typing-extensions"]